Escort Advice

Just because you got your phone ringing and your making money don’t make the mistake of thinking you’re a know it all! I made that mistake and it costed me dearly. I was working for one of the busiest agencies in my city and I was the busiest escort on the roster after just 3 months. I quickly thought I was the queen of the universe and I made a couple of mistakes that you definitely want to avoid and I ended up learning the hard way. I bounced back stronger than ever, but I wouldn’t want any of you to make the same mistakes that I made and so I want to help every one out by explaining some of the mistakes I made and letting you know how to avoid them.

Set Yourself Apart From Escort Competition

Everyone has something unique to offer. If you fit the profile of a client’s “type” you don’t want to get lost in the shuffle, you want to stand out and put yourself at the top of his list of people to see. One of the biggest mistakes you can make as an escort is not having an identity, or a personality. You might go into this assuming that clients book you based on your looks alone, but you quickly find out that a lot of clients are booking based on a certain fantasy, based on their connection to you, based on a recommendation (online, personal or otherwise) or they are booking with you because something about you caught their eye. You want to make sureย perspectiveย clients know whatย distinguishesย you from your competition and I will show you how to do that.

How Escorts Can Avoid Time Wasters

One of the biggest difficulties in being both an independent escort and an agency escort is you need to know who is pulling your chain and who to cozy up to. Sometimes you’ll get potential clients who call you on the phone, and they ask endless questions and to your surprise they end up being your best client. On the other hand you can get someone who calls and asks a million questions while jacking off on the phone and no intention of ever booking a date with you. You’ll also run into guys who talk a big game and tell you they want to see you regularly and fly you all around the world, but really they’re working you for that extra service with no intentions of doing any of the things they mention. Being able to separate the good clients from the time wasters is extremely important and can save you a lot of grief. I will explain how I used to do this and some lessons I learned along the way.

How Escorts Can Make Every Client Feel Special

No client, well maybe some, but very few clients want to feel like they’re fifth in line and they’re just another number. Most clients want to feel like you enjoy spending time with them as much as they enjoy spending time with you. They want to feel as though every other client you see is just work, but when you’re with them you’re truly enjoying yourself and having fun. Being able to do this is a talent in itself and will make you a lot of money. It’s something that takes a while to develop, because you will be able to do this with some clients but it’s difficult to do it with other clients. Once you’ve mastered being able to do this with every client, you’ll open up avenues that allow you keep regular clients, spend less on advertising and make more money in less time.

What Escorts Should Bring on Dates

Every escort needs to pack certain things in their purse for their dates, and in this section I will break down the things you absolutely can’t go without. By being prepared you are making yourself safer, more professional and ensuring all your dates go well. This took me a long time to learn, I used to always forget or didn’t know what to bring or would try to bring a suitcase full of stuff. After a long time being an escort I got it down to an essential list that every escort needs to have for every date they go on, whether it’s incall or outcall.

Escort Resources

This is a section where I share links to other escort resources. This isn’t my regular “links” page where I exchange links with other sites, rather this is meant to be a real resource for escorts and ladies interested in becoming escorts. If you’re new to this business, as most people who are visiting this site are, it’s important to remember that although I’ve given you the best information I can on this site – it’s only one person’s opinion. I’ve tried to offer some other sites that provide good information for escorts and you should continue your reading on these sites to get a more well rounded perspective.

Well there you have it, that’s it for my advanced escort tips section. I’ll be adding more tips as I get suggestions or think of more stuff to add, but if you’ve read through the entire site at this point you should be ready to start your new exciting career as an escort.

If you’d like to know more about me you can click here. If you’d like to get in touch with me for any reason, you can click here. I am always available to talk to any one, be it to answer questions or as a friend!

36 thoughts on “Escort Advice

    • I don’t understand either of what you said. My first reaction when I started? I was obviously nervous but my first few dates went really well, I thought it was the easiest money ever made. By the time I had a few dates that felt like “work” I had already experienced the easier side of the business so it was easy to just focus on hoping the next date would be easy. As for not knowing where to search because you’re ready? I’m not sure what you’re trying to say, this is a great place to get started and if you read the entire site you should have a good idea on where to go from here. Decide if you’re going to be an independent escort or work for an agency, incall or outcall, and then start making it happen. Good luck ๐Ÿ™‚

  1. Hi, over the last several months I’ve been contemplating this option of escorting and this website has been sooo helpful. Needless to say I have finally come to the decision that this is what I want to try, due to the fact that my finances have come to the bare minimal. I have questions that I want to ask you specific to my circumstances, is there an email that I can contact you at?

  2. Hi, ive found this very useful as I’m starting with an agency this week after a portfolio shoot. I’m nervous yet excited, I’m single with children and never want a boyfreind ever again! I’m looking forward to having a better lifestyle through having more money and I’m treating this as a business so any tips are welcome! I’m 31 yrs of age and feel like I’m old enough to make this discussion x

    • I don’t know what you mean, why would you get in trouble for saying no? What would you be saying no to? Remember, you’re running a business and you can decide whom you provide services to. If you owned a restaurant and someone was rude, abusive etc you would kick them out. Same goes for escorting. There is nothing wrong with saying no to a client if you’re not comfortable.

  3. Hi! I love you site, darling! I decided to start escorting a while ago, just recently I was able to have my first date. It went very well! My only problem is that my phone rings SO much now that I can’t answer everyone. I feel like I’m unable to sift through my clients because there are just so many asking. Do you have any advise for my high call volume? Thanks!

    • Yes, my advice would be to either (a) do email only and pick and chose who you reply to or (b) hire someone to answer your calls for you. Having a high call volume is a blessing, because it means there’s more demand then supply and you can pick and chose who you see. So pick the best clients and enjoy yourself. Of course the other option is always raising your rates!

  4. I wanted to know if the pics you submit to an agency influence there selection. I have never done escorting and i see some escort sites and they look awkward. Thank you for any advice. I have enjoyed the information you have posted.

    • Yes, I would imagine your pics influence escort agencies decisions. Agencies know their clients and know what they are looking for. If they have a bunch of blondes and not enough brunettes, they may be actively looking for brunettes. You’ll never know if an agency is willing to work with you or not unless you contact them, so I would suggest finding an agency you want to work with and reaching out to them.

  5. I am new to this. I am working on my own. I’ve just now began on this website online. I just began posting a few photos and I already have a few guys trying to contact me or speak to me. There’s one he wants to go on a lunch date first. Is that risky to be out in public or it’s fine for me to go?

    • If he wants to meet up for lunch and he’s willing to pay you for your time, then go for it ๐Ÿ™‚ If he’s saying he wants to meet up with you off the clock, then chances are he’s a time waster.

  6. Hello,

    I have a question. Do breast really matter? Or is it the overall presentation and quality service of the escort. I have a friend who would like to get started in the industry, but she is hesitant because of post-pregnancy breast. She has no stretch marks, and is very beautiful. Should her rates reflect this, or do men (clients) have a preference. She is really concerned about being embarrassed via the dreaded internet boards.

    • Most guys have reasonable expectations, they know that escorts are real women with real world bodies and don’t expect escorts to have perfect bodies. Some guys are assholes and will smile to your face but go on the internet and talk about you like a piece of meat, there’s nothing you can do about it. Just tell your friend that the vast majority of clients are very nice people and won’t have any issue with it. If it is made public, she’ll have her regulars and other clients to remind her that it’s not important to everyone, just some. Hope that helps ๐Ÿ™‚

    • My advice would be to look for the best designer/programmer available, rather then someone who tailors specifically for escorts. Good luck ๐Ÿ™‚

  7. Hi,
    I am really glad I found your website and I love it! I think all of your advices and introductions are really great! I started thinking about being an escorting when I realized I can’t afford my graduate tuition and fees. I will be studying in New York next year, and I was wondering if it’s possible to lead a double life as a grad student and as an escort? I mean, I have to attend classes sometimes during the day, and is it possible that I tell the agency when I will be available and just ask them to arrange clients for me when I am available? Will the agency be willing to do that? Will being an escort seriously affect my academics? What do you think about it? Do you have any advice on my questions? Thank you!

    • Thanks so much for the kind words!

      Yes, agencies will most certainly be willing to accommodate your schedule, as long as you have one. They’ll be understanding if you have to move things around sometimes, but try and give them as much warning as you can. What I mean to say is you can’t just show up when you feel like it, but if you’re organized with your time and set time aside to work as opposed to just telling them last minute when you’re available, it will work. It will affect your studies as much as you let it though, again just be organized and efficient with your time and you should be fine.

  8. I have been thinking long and hard about becoming an escort. I have a couple questions…. First off I live in a small town of which I am unsure where to begin to even find a reputable agency….Second.. how do u feel about kissing??? If you know what I mean

    • If your town is too small for an agency, then I would consider working in a larger city that is close by. If the town is too small for an agency, it’s because there’s a lack of demand. Unless you’re in the middle of no where the should be cities within commuting distance. As for kissing, it’s a part of the job. I don’t think I could be intimate with someone without kissing them. If you’re worried about kissing clients then I don’t think this is a good job for you. Clients aren’t just looking for someone to have baseless sex with, they’re looking for a girlfriend experience, they’re looking for someone to be intimate with. Kissing is a big part of that.

  9. Hey Chick! So I’m super excited about escorting! I’ve been doing research and reading blogs and what not… and I love your page btw thank you!.. any ways… I have a few questions…

    Ive seen ppl saying things abut screenings? or screening guys? what is that? and how do you do it?

    im planning on doing this with a girl friend of mine… so would u recommend getting hotel rooms then bc we are just starting out?

    and im also kinda nervous about like a guy being violent… would u recommend having a guy friend near by for protection? sorry I have a lot of questions haha…

    also im worried about my body… im 20 years old… im not fat at all… little chubby.. im 5’7 155lbs … but i seriously have no ass and im like worried about that being a big issue, lol… what are your thoughts? I don’t wanna like let guys down w a flat booty haha…

    also I have noooo clue on how to like start? like im going in blind I feel like… do you think its okay to post on a craigslist/backpage web site? or do they have escort sites u can post on? I mean eventually I would make a web page but for now I might do that..

    so this was what I was thinking in my head… posting on one of those and then getting a hotel and waiting for calls… yes no? should I make appts like a few days before so im not wasting my money by sitting in a hotel? ahhhh so many questions!

    and when a guy would call/email/text i should always say “donations” so if they are like how much do you charge… should i say something like “well i accept donations… blah blah…” i don’t know how to tell them my prices without being like “this is what u own me” you know what i mean?

    they contact me should i ask what they are interested in, what they want or are thinking? or wait until i meet up with them…?

    Im pretttyyyyy sure that’s all i have.. im sure ill think of more! lol.
    cant wait to hear from you! Ty! ๐Ÿ™‚

    • Hi There, thanks for the compliments ๐Ÿ™‚

      For information on screening check out this page: http://www.howtobecomeanescort.net/escort-safety/screening-escort-clients

      Yes, hotel rooms are great when you’re starting out or touring.

      I wouldn’t be worried about clients getting violent, but I would be prepared for it. Always have an exit plan, always carry some form of protection (mase, etc), always know where the washroom is and how to lock it, never have your purse too far away from you (cell phone) etc.

      I wouldn’t worry about your booty ๐Ÿ™‚ There’s some guys who love a big booty but there’s plenty of them who don’t. Use real pictures and let the ones who are looking for a different kind of booty go elsewhere. ๐Ÿ™‚

      How to start escorting? That’s what this site is about! Read through all of the pages, there’s lots of them covering every topic… including escort marketing ie where to advertise.

      You can charge for your time, you can say rates etc. Make sure you screen your clients! (see above)

      Don’t ask what their interested in over the phone, that’s definitely best to leave it for when you’re in person and the money has already been exchanged.

      Good luck! ๐Ÿ™‚

  10. I was searching for information concerning Escorting.
    It’s an option I was thinking about since I am looking for work and need an income urgently, not sure if I will go ahead with it though.

    My question is: will I be acceptable as an escort since I am 49 years old? I’m told that I am pretty, gorgeous even. But not sure if I will cut it at the end.

    I love sex, like to talk about it – I’m on a naughty chat site, even had some phone sex.

    • Yes! There are plenty of mature escorts out there. There lots of clients who are looking for young escorts, but there’s also lots of them who prefer a mature lady. If you do decide this is something you want to do, don’t let your age stop you. Advertise it proudly! ๐Ÿ™‚

    • Short answer: Yes.

      Long answer: The difference between escorts and “hookers” is that clients aren’t just paying you for sexual release. They are paying for your time and usually you will have a drink first, get to know each other, perhaps a massage and then move on to the deed. It’s an unrushed “Girlfriend Experience” that an escort providers. With that being said I am sure there are lots of escorts who act like hookers and vice versa. There’s also some women who may be escorts that don’t sleep with their clients and rather go on dinner dates or business functions, but it is NOT common. The chances of making a living or even any money, without providing sexual services (as an escort) is next to none.

  11. Hi

    Thanks for putting up so much great information on your site. It is much appreciated ๐Ÿ™‚ I’m 39, Australian and went for my first escort agency interview. The manager was absolutely lovely and extremely honest. It is the most popular agency in my city. The manager told me that although I look very fresh-faced, look after myself and am very attractive, I may find it difficult to compete with the gorgeous young girls they normally hire. They do have one mature escort who out books the young girls but she has something about her (is very flirty, fun and bubbly) and that other “mature” girls have tried to emulate it but they just look awkward. She said that I would need to have something about me.
    My question is, do you think that by dressing very sophisticated and business-like (I forgot to ask what I would need to wear and couldn’t see the girls when they were introducing themselves to the client) would make me stand out from the other girls, i.e. pencil skirts, expensive soft blouses and nice heels rather than stripper stilettos?
    She is willing to put me on a shift so we can see how I go but suggested perhaps working with other agencies as well as the others in the city do have more mature girls.

    Thanks ๐Ÿ™‚

    • Well, I would take the owner’s opinion into strong consideration. The truth is there are many men, both young and mature, who prefer a more mature woman. However the agency owner knows her clients better than anyone, and if she says that you might have a rough go of it, I would tend to heed to that advice. With that being said if she’s willing to let you work a shift and see how it goes, I’d definitely give it a shot. I think if all the other escorts are wearing “stripper” clothes and you’re in a business suite, it could help make you stand out. On your first shift I’d recommend bringing a couple different types of outfits so that you can try different outfits and have a back up plan. Good luck!! ๐Ÿ™‚

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