Anyone who tells you escorting is 100% safe is either fooling you, or fooling themselves. We live in an unsafe world, there’s lots of professions out there aside from escorting that are plenty risky. Being a police officer, a soldier, a firefighter, delivering pizza, being a nurse or doctor, they all come with their own set of risks. The risks should not scare you away from becoming an escort, however you should be fully aware of all risks before getting involved. One of the reasons I feel so strongly about this, is if you’re aware of the risks, it’s easier for you to avoid them and be conscious of them. If you go into blind and you end up falling victim to one of the risks being an escort you can end up full of regret, self pity and consumed by the thoughts of “what if”.
One of the most important things you need to do is screen your clients. Some escorts will go as far as doing background checks that involve verifying the client’s identity and job while other escort’s simply do reverse phone look up on the numbers to see if the guy is legit or not. It really depends on the city you’re working in, but no matter where you are you need to screen your calls in way or another. Making sure your clients are screened can help you feel more relaxed and confident at your appointments. Peace of mind can go a long way in making sure both you and your client have a great session together. However you never want to overstep your boundaries, if discretion is important to you, you can imagine it’s also very important to your clients. If you come off as asking for too much information they can skip you over and move on to the next one.
Sticky situations can vary from a client that creeps you out, to a client who’s drunk or on drugs and you don’t feel comfortable around them. Being able to handle the situation properly is not a matter of being professional, it’s a matter of your safety. That drunk could become violent and that creep could be a serial killer. You want to be able to know how to de-escalate situations and make a graceful exit, rather than cause a scene and escalate the issue to a point where the outcome is unpredictable. If you were working in any other situation, you’d be fully trained on how to handle these instances however sometimes working as an escort you’re just kind of thrown into the water and expected to sink or swim. I will do my best to give you a guideline to follow and a couple of examples of how I got myself out of some sticky situations.
You might be thinking “yeah, yeah.. I went through Sex Ed in school!” but those classes weren’t geared towards professional escorts, they were basic awareness classes for the average horny teenager. What I am going to go over is some signs to look out for, ways to limit your exposure and break down what services are the riskiest to offer and how to decide whether to offer them or not and to whom. I was an escort for 6 years and am proud to say I never caught a single STD and so I definitely think I know enough to give proper advice in this area, however keep in mind I am certainly not claiming to be a doctor or a medical professional of any capacity.
If you’ve decided to work for an escort agency, then they should be handling your security for you. However when you’re all alone in a room with a client, be it in your place, the client’s place or a hotel room, you’re alone. You need to know what you can do to make sure you’re not vulnerable and you can handle yourself in all situations. If you’re an independent escort, then you need to know everything there is about escort security and make sure you’re protected. There are a lot of weirdos out there and your security is not something you want to leave to chance. However luckily enough if you follow my advice you can limit your exposure to security concerns. I worked as an escort for 6 years and got into my fair share of sticky situations but I was never hurt or harmed.
No matter who you are, your safety as an escort is a legitimate concern and you need to be able to address your concerns with awareness and confidence. A lot of this site is about spreading knowledge and awareness and making money and having fun is certainly a goal on all of our minds, however the most important thing is escort safety and so I hope you pay extra special attention to this section and stay safe!