Screening Escort Clients

Screening your clients in one way or another is both tedious and a necessity. If you work for an escort agency they’re going to take care of this for you, and at points I thought this was reason enough to work for an escort agency! There’s not a lot to be said on this topic but I will try to explain as much as possible and be as thorough as possible because this is an important aspect of the business that I don’t want to just skim over.

There are three reasons to verify clients:

1) Make sure they aren’t a serial killer. Okay, maybe that’s a bit dramatic but the point being that you’re about to be alone with them and due to the nature of your work it’s not like every one you know will know where you are. There are a lot of bad things that can happen and so doing your due diligence to limit those chances is not only a good idea, it’s a necessity. If you can verify the client’s identity prior to meeting up with him and have someone who can go to the police and tell them who you were last with, that can literally be the difference between life and death.

2) Make sure the client isn’t a time waster. A lot of times when you’re booking a date as an escort it involves scheduling, driving out to see the client or making sure you’re ready to receive them at your place. Escorts put a lot of time and effort goes into dates and you want to be stood up. Knowing the clients real name, phone number and other details ensures the client isn’t a time waster.

3) Make sure the client isn’t law enforcement. Stings aren’t all that common with escorts, but they can happen and you’d hate to have any regrets. So if you feel something isn’t right, verifying for the purpose of law enforcement screening can be the smart choice.

So now that you know why you should be screening your clients, let me explain how to screen your clients. These are all different methods of screening, and you can do one or more different methods, depending on what you feel is necessary. Keep in mind you don’t need to screen every client, go with your gut and trust yourself. If somebody calls out of the blue and wants to see you right away and it gives you a bad gut feeling, screen them in every way possible to either eliminate them or to eliminate the bad feeling you’re getting. However if you know someone from a message board, and you’ve spoke to them a bunch of times and you haven’t personally spoke to any of the other escorts he’s been with but you know there haven’t been any vocal complaints etc you can just go ahead without screening at all – if you want to. It’s completely up to you.

1) Name & phone number.
You want to at least get their name and phone number, this is standard practice and most clients won’t have a problem giving you this information. Once they give you their phone number, let them know you will give them a call right back. Immediately check to see who the owner of the phone is and what the address is, by doing a reverse phone look up. This should take less than 2 minutes and once you’ve done that you call them back right away. Now that you have a little verified information about them you can ask them if it’s their address, if it’s a business or home, etc. Having this kind of information written down – especially if that’s the address you’re going to – can help you out if something goes wrong.

2) Place of work.
Some escorts require that their clients tell them their place of work and work number. This isn’t to pry into the client’s life, but it’s additional security if you know where he works. It’s also helpful in eliminating him as law enforcement because if he has a job as a VP of a venture capital firm, chances are he doesn’t moonlight as an undercover police officer.

3) References from other escorts.
The best kind of screening you can possibly get, but also the most difficult sometimes, is getting references from other escorts. If a client has 2-3 references from escorts that have ads on the internet so you can also verify that his references are real people and not just accomplices in a grand scheme to GET YOU! Lol sorry, anyway…having those references allows you to be 100% sure that he’s real, verify what kind of client he is by asking the escort’s he’s been with and to be 100% sure he’s not law enforcement.

4) Show me the goods!
If you have any doubts at the outset of an appointment on whether a client is law enforcement or not, you can ask him to expose himself before exchanging money or talking details. If he refuses, just leave. If he does expose himself, then you can be sure he’s not law enforcement because police officers are not allowed to expose themselves in a sting.

5) Reverse engineering.
If a client sends you an email and you want to find out who they are, it’s never a bad idea to do a little snooping. A lot of clients will email you from their “secret” emails, but a lot email straight from their regular accounts. Do a google search for the client’s email, do a facebook search, do a myspace search, do a search, do a search for his email in as many different places as you can. If the email is [email protected] (for example) then also search google for “johnny_loves_pizza” and see if anything comes up, because this could be his online alias that he uses to make posts on different message boards. If he’s been posting about raping and murdering escorts on some serial killer message board, you might want to move on. If he’s been posting on a sports or hobby website, you might find out he’s a pretty normal guy.

That’s it for screening your escort clients. It’s definitely tedious and one of the worst parts about being an escort, but it’s absolutely necessary on all counts. Use your best judgement and always, always follow your gut. $500 is never worth getting yourself into any amount of trouble, shrug it off and move on to the next client.

Next Up: Getting Out of Sticky Escort Situations

7 thoughts on “Screening Escort Clients

  1. hi……love all the advice and information you are giving for FREE!!!!i had been searching for books and all kind of information that wanted me to pay hundreds of dollars for it……SO I THANK YOU FOR THIS!!!
    i have decided that i want to be an escort…..i have been doing it for sometime now but i didnt feel as though…….how can i put this…………i didnt feel as though it was working due to certain situations and what not………….so i am soaking in all this advice like a sponge and my question/s to you is…… far as maybe booking a date with an undercover…….should i have a lawyer on standby for situations like this? is there certain things they will say on the phone that will indicate that they are the police?
    out of your 5yrs of doing this did you ever get jammed up by an undercover…..
    i’ve seen specials on tv about the sex industry and whatnot about how they try and jam girls up on backpage……….

    • There is nothing illegal with charging money for your time. The only time the police will be able to bust you is if you agree to do a specific act for a specific amount of money. They’re not dumb either, they’ll be tricky about it. As long as you don’t agree to doing anything specific for money, then you’re okay. When they (or you) show up, give them a hug and a kiss on the lips. If they pull back, you should take that as a warning. If they go full steam ahead and start groping you, you can be pretty sure they’re not a cop.

  2. Interestingly so, I’m always curious how others word their services without actually speaking of acts that they provide. It’s an unspoken part, but still a tricky area and I would be curious how you went about that with your clients.

    • I’m naturally hesitant to offer legal advice because I’m not a lawyer and I don’t know where you’re based. For the most part it’s not illegal to discuss what you “like to do”, it’s only illegal to charge for specific acts. With that being said, avoiding details is the best way to go because you don’t want to be in front of a judge with your lawyer explaining “No sir, she simply said she ENJOYS giving oral sex, not that it’s included in the price she charges per hour” because although you’d be technically legal, it’s clearly grey area.

      The best advice I can give you is to get as many reviews as you can. Let the reviews speak for themselves. When you’re first starting out, read the reviews of the other top escorts in your area and find try to out perform them service wise. If you can do that and develop a great reputation, in the future when callers ask about this or that, simply tell them you have a great reputation online and they can feel free to Google it and get back to you when they’re ready to book.

  3. Hi I found a agency, they require me to meet up in the car?..have u done this before…also they said they will pass my contact details to the client for him to give me a call…I assumed I was suppose to have his details..also they will be paying me over two weeks after the jobs been done..not sure if it’s legit…and gettin nervous…shall I just try it out or do I normally get the money up front once Iv finished the job..?…please email me back as its tomorrow and I need to know wot to say… Kind regards nadia…

      • Yes, me too. Some of these posts are old and I wish the girls would follow up. I’m a worrier and we could all learn from their experiences. The original poster may never see this but I wanted to add never to use your real phone number. Use a call forwarding service. There are even apps now that will issue you a phone number and you can then in turn have calls made to that number forwarded to your personal phone. Or you can get a pay as you go phone that you can reload with minutes without ever having to register the phone with the company. I believe TracFone is one company that you can do that with. The reason is, you never want anybody to be able to look up your personal details. I have found myself in situations that scared me and very well could have turned out much worse. All 3 were with trusted regulars that I never would have imagined I’d ever have a problem with. They blurred the line between fantasy and reality and took our time together as being more than what it was. I made them feel special and they “fell in love.” They didn’t fall in love with me, they fell in love with the fantasy of Gabrielle. These guys don’t realize we really aren’t little nympho bunnies, nor that we weren’t really made up wearing thigh Jim’s and heels 24/7! The men who this happened to with all turned into control freaks and just nuts! Be careful if you have a regular who starts booking too much. It’s easy to slip and start becoming friends with these guys and revealing bits and prices of your personal details. They will thread together everything they know about you and it will be used against you. I’m sorry if this post is too long. Please edit it if you must, I will totally understand. I made some mistakes along the way and I thought I knew what I was doing. I can only imagine what would happen if some of these girls who have no experience made the same mistakes that I did.Thank you for giving me a platform to share. My goal is the same as yours (I wish I knew your name! LoL) I just want everybody to stay sane and be safe.

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