Getting out of sticky escort situations is more of an art than a science but I will do my best to describe my general rules that I’d follow when I no longer felt safe or comfortable with a client. The most important thing to state, is that if you feel you’re in immediate danger, just run like the wind. No need to make excuses or be diplomatic about it, get the hell out of there as quickly as possible. I had never been in a situation where I felt immediate danger, however I have been in situations where I knew that if I stayed for too long it could end poorly.
When I felt a situation was changing for the worse, my main objective was not to let the client know I was uncomfortable or suspecting of anything. I would play it cool, wait for the perfect moment and then make my exit. Raising suspicion can make the situation worse, by escalating it. If you think someone might be a violent drunk, and you have plans of leaving because of this, telling him you’re leaving cause he’s drunk is going to cause a confrontation. I’m a petite woman and some clients are large, strong men.. the last thing I want is a confrontation.
So how do you deescalate a situation? Like I said, it’s a bit of an art form but I will try to explain. If someone is drinking and I will ask them for a drink and pretend to sip on it. People who are drunk prefer it when other people are drinking with them, so rather than refusing a drink or sitting there and watching them drink their beverage ask them to get a drink for you. If you really feel unsafe, this will also give you an opportunity to duck out. If not, you need to have a back up plan. If you have a phone that has apps, download a fake call app so you can get your phone to ring whenever you want. Take the call, explain there’s an emergency and get out of there. If nothing has happened yet in the date, it’s best to give back the client his money and leave in a hurry. Make the emergency personal and make sure they don’t think it’s another client or your boyfriend or pimp or whatever. Let them know it’s your sister who just called you and your mother is in the hospital. Apologize and leave.
If it’s not possible to get your phone to ring without arising suspicion, then excuse yourself to the washroom. While in the washroom lock the door and take your time. Stay in the washroom for at least 5-10 minutes. When you come out of the washroom, let the client know that you were nauseous and still don’t feel well. Apologize to them, let them know it must have been something you ate just before coming over and tell them you’ll make it up to them at some point in the future all the while making your way to the door and getting out of there as soon as possible.
Which ever route you go, be it the fake phone call or the fake sickness, the key is not hanging around. Make a quick, plausible excuse and be out of there within 30 seconds of telling it to them. Don’t let them start talking or ask questions etc, as you’re explaining what’s going on you’ve got your coat on and you’re out the door. Giving them time to think gives them time to dissect the situation and start saying stuff like I’ll give you a ride to the hospital, or I’ve got some medicine for that. You want to avoid any possible remedies they may have for your sudden need to leave and get out of there as soon as possible.
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